To love your husband Tuesday

It is a way share wonderful and creative ways to love your spouse. I was really excited to do this because for me, it's easy to put my kids before my husband, and to take care of their needs before his. And not that that's wrong, but I get so caught up in catering to them, that I feel like he can do for himself. Does that make sense? So, this is a great way for me to put everything in perspective and to remind myself that my husband should know that he is still dreamy and exciting to me.

So this is my first Tuesday joining in this meme. I am kind of excited for it. Not only can I try to find ways to love my sweet hubby better, I hope to really grow from it.

Today I am going to use the exercise that I found in our "10 Minute Marriage Principles" book. When you are having a "spouse attack," (something that happens to make you feel, think, act negatively toward your mate) you need to have an immediate COUNTERATTACK. The author of this book recommends writing 5 things that you love, value, or like about your mate. Now my Benny is not the only one that is over the top so I have a few more than 5!

I love that you make me smile, giggle, & laugh.

I value that you want to stay physically fit for yourself, me, & our children.

I love that YOU are the the father of my children.

I love that you are a godly man.

I value that you want to find a solution to problems.

I like the kind of friend you are to me & to others.

I love that you want to make others feel special & take the time to do it.

I love that you push me to try new things.

I value your integrity.

I love your beautiful smile and eyes.

I like how handy you are around the house.

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